Yesterday I took our now dried and brittle Christmas tree and placed it on the curb in front of our home. It wasn’t alone out there as many of our neighbors had recently done the same. Even though Christmas is over, it’s still a sad sight to see all the once beautiful Christmas trees waiting now out in the cold to be picked up and taken away. There is a lesson I find in these discarded trees that applies to a favorite activity this time of year, the making of New Year’s resolutions. Trees die quickly once they are cut off from their roots, and the same is true of resolutions. If we only focus on the what we want to change rather than the underlying why, there is a good chance our resolve to change will not last. Connecting with the why we want to change something helps us…
